We often ask, who am I? What do I want out of life? What are my goals? What are my dreams? Only we have the answers to these questions. The trouble is, sometimes we still haven't figured out the answers. If you intend on discovering who you are, you'll have to uncover the answers to these questions. This chapter is designed to solve the riddle of who you are.

Life Scale

If you don't score 100 out of 100 on the life scale don't sweat it, I doubt anyone will. The point of the exercise is to identify your strengths and weaknesses. We cannot fix what we do not know is broken.

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After you discover what you want, in order to be happy you must act on it. Going where you want is a big part of doing what you want. If you are not happy with where you are, you'll wake up unhappy each day.

For my fiance's birthday, I suggested a vacation down south. Sadly, we couldn't afford to go, so instead of sobbing about it, I did something about it. If I couldn't bring her down south, I would bring down south to her. With the help of my father, I built a Tiki Bar.

There were hardly any free plans available on the Internet, so I decided to look at some pictures and draw up my own plan. We got the lumber and within a few hours we had a bar in our basement.

It was difficult to keep the bar building a surprise because my fiance was upstairs. So when it was finished we took a trip to the dollar store and decorated it as if we were down south. I have included my plans and some photos for you. Please be careful and if you are unsure of your abilities, please consult a professional.